Saturday, April 24, 2010

The Duty of the Civilized

(18/1-40) What is ‘THE DUTY’ of a Civilized Person?

THE DUTY of a Civilized Person is to teach he who is savage Civilization, Righteousness, the Knowledge of Him(Her)self, the Science of everything in Life, Love, Peace and Happiness.

Seems simple enough right? Unfortunately, this is not always the case. As Gods/Earths or anyone who proclaims that they’re a Civilized Person, we have a responsibility to be the embodiment of that proclamation. This means that we must have a sense of ‘DUTY’ or responsibility. Responsibility means our natural obligation to ‘respond’ to things/situations, based upon our ‘ability’ (responsibility). The sole reason for gaining KOS is to become a better asset to our Family, Community, Nation, and Planet! We become better in order to help make this Planet a better place! Everything else either coincides with that ‘DUTY’ or goes against it. The daily struggle we all go through is maintaining our focus on that responsibility, and making sure we don’t sidetrack ourselves from living out this Culture to the best of our ability. In the process, there are many things that we cannot afford to entertain or condone. Why? Because we undermine our DUTY to our Family, Community, Nation, Humanity, and Planet! For those People who believe they have no Family, Community, National, Humanity, and Planet responsibilities, I would ask them how can they justify living? If we’re not here to help, by doing positive and productive things for our Family, Community, Nation, Humanity, and Planet, then why are we even here?

In order to recognize a ‘DUTY’, we must be considerate. We must be capable of thinking outside of ourselves and ponder the needs of other people, places, and things. This is very important because we live in an interdependent Universe where all things rely on eachother. As children, this is one of the first Lessons we’re supposed to learn; how to share and work together. As we get older and more mature, we’re also supposed to learn higher levels of sharing and working together, because as Adults, we gain more responsibility. On an even a higher level of growth and development, those who proclaim themselves to be Christian, Muslim, Gods/Earths, Kemetic, Hebrew, Buddhist, etc... are supposed to learn more advanced levels of sharing and working together. This occurs because these Religious, Spiritual, Cultural, or Metaphysical Systems are designed to put us in direct union/communication with the essence of ALL “Civilization, Righteousness, the Knowledge of Self, the Science of everything in Life, Love, Peace and Happiness.” (18/1-40) This, of course, is the greatest of all responsibilities!

When The Father first started teaching the 1st 9 Born, it’s important to realize that they were still children. This means that they were still learning the basics of sharing and working together. Under these conditions, many of these children taught other children, and so on and so forth. As these children grew into Adulthood, many of them matured and grasped higher levels of responsibility. Many of them aged, b.u.t. never matured. Still then, there are many who grew in responsibility as Gods/Earths, and many others who didn’t. Make no mistake about it, this happens in all Nations! There are always some Church Members with an infantile idea of what it means to be a Christian, some Muslims who have a childlike understanding of Islam, and some New School Rappers who’re green to the demands of the Music Industry. In all of these cases, including ours (The NGE), irresponsibility or lack of ‘DUTY’ negatively effects the growth and development of our Families, Community, Nation, and Planet. When segments of a Group express this level of immaturity, what often ends up happening is an entire Group catches the blame for the actions of a few! This is the reason why People ignorantly attack Christianity as whole, just because some Pedophiles clam to be Priests. This is why People ignorantly attack the whole Muslim World because some Suicide Bombers claimed to be Muslims. This is also why People ignorantly label The NGE ‘A Gang’ (STG.; Security Threat Group) because some Savages claim to be Gods/Earths. While some people do mature enough to recognize what’s truly demanded of them as an Adult and Representative of their Teachings, other People don’t. Those that do, you’ll recognize higher aspirations, behavior, etc... that reflects a more advance level of thinking and social development. Those that don’t, you’ll recognize lower aspirations, behavior, etc... that reflects an immature level of thinking and social development.

The above Lesson, 18/1-40, is two fold! For some people it’s more Instructional. It’s explaining to us a sense of DUTY we’ve never recognized before. For others, it’s more of a Confirmation. It’s elaborating on a sense DUTY we’ve already demonstrated to some degree. The importance of this Degree means the same thing to everybody: As we have received, we are likewise responsible for transmitting. As we enjoy the benefits of those who came before us, we ourselves must be beneficial to those who come after us. Recognizing that our life is an integral part of a greater Cycle of Life, is paramount to grasping our DUTY (responsibility) as a Civilized Person. All of this begins with a basic consideration for people, places and things outside of ourselves!

One of the biggest problems within this Nation is a basic lack of consideration for eachother, and no sense of DUTY. This is not the case for many of us, b.u.t. there are still many others who exhibit an infantile mentality when it comes to sharing and working together. Part of the problem stems from a basic lack of understanding of the above said Lesson; What is THE DUTY of a Civilized Person? (18/1-40) It’s funny how People can claim this Culture that The Father and his Companions selflessly shared with us, yet be unwilling to do the same by sharing this with others. I’m not talking about getting someone to memorize information (Lessons). Although this definitely “can be” a part of a person’s growth and development process, the 18/1-40 says nothing about that! A person only learns our 8-Point Curriculum because they want to embrace AND teach our Culture. So that process IS NOT for everybody! What I’m talking about is following in the Tradition of The Father, and various other Ancestors who came before us, who selflessly gave of themselves! I’m talking about the Tradition of sharing, caring and being actively involved with our Families, Communities, Nation, and the Planet’s growth and development! The 18/1-40 does say that we must have the capacity ‘to teach’ he (or she) who is savage Civilization, and it stands to reason that if we’re being uncivilized or savage ourselves, then we’re incapable of teaching anyone Civilization. This Lesson also says that we must have the capacity ‘to teach’ Righteousness. Now if we’re advocating/condoning unrighteous acts like stealing, regardless if it’s a pack of gum, a bogus tax return, or a 2010 Chevy Tahoe, then we’re incapable of teaching Righteousness. Crime is crime regardless if we’re calling it white collar, blue collar, or no collar! Another important DUTY mentioned within that Lesson, in addition to the Science of everything in Life, is Love, Peace, and Happiness! It’s impossible to teach someone love if we don’t have and aren’t showing genuine Love for our own Family, Community, Nation, and Planet! This is also true about Peace! How can we teach someone about peace if we’re really not at Peace with ourselves and the positive things other people are doing? What about Happiness? Is it possible to teach People Happiness if we’re clearly unhappy about where we’re at in life? As a Civilized Person, it is our DUTY to be about the above said things! People shouldn’t have to comb through a whole bunch of bullshit we’re saying & doing in order for them to recognize the elements highlighted in that Lesson, it should be apparent! As the God Life told me the other day, “As Righteous People, the mistakes we make should be at a minimal because we’re striving for perfection, and showing People the Civilized way. When there are areas in our life that we’re not as refined in yet, People should be able to recognize us actively working on these areas. This is what we should be doing at the very least! If we’re not representing the Culture in this respect, then we’re failing our charge as true Fathers and Mothers of Civilization.

Civilization is considered a high level of cultural and technological development. The basis of this ‘high level’ of development is determined by the Mindset of the People. This Mindset is a Worldview orientated with “knowledge, wisdom, understanding, culture, refinement, and not being a savage in the pursuit of happiness” (17/1-40) ALL of these components indicate that a sense of Morality and Ethics crowns ‘the meaning’ of Civilization. In other words, regardless of what we manufacture or produce, it’s our sense of Right and Wrong that ultimately determines its sustainability! This is the reason why Nations such as Babylon, Rome, America, etc.. fall! The Moral & Ethical Fabric of these Societies were corrupt, and it’s Family Units came/are coming apart at the seams! Morality & Ethics are the ‘Criteria’ (Standard) we use to measure the difference between Righteousness and Wickedness, Right and Wrong. This ‘Criteria’ (Standard) are the Principles and Values that govern our thinking and behavior. A Christian proclaims The Bible as their ‘Criteria’ for these Principles and Values. A Muslim proclaims The Koran, Satanists proclaim Anthon Levy’s Satanic Bible, etc... Although People proclaim different Religious, Spiritual, or Metaphysical Texts as the ‘Criteria’ for their Principles and Values, there are still many others that view their personal experience/ideals as the ‘Criteria’ for their Principles and Values. Regardless what we proclaim, Righteousness transcends all Religious, Spiritual, or Metaphysical Texts, Language, Gender, Ethnicity, Age, Geographic Location, and Social Status! In order to “advocate for one common cause” (8/1-14) and be unified as a Family/ Human Family, we must be able to identify the Universal Principles and Values that define the impartiality of Righteousness! For instance, child hunger and child abuse is unrighteous regardless what we call ourselves or where it’s happening on the Planet Earth! Selling or using crack is not right, regardless to whom or what! When People are unable to agree that things such as child hunger, selling/using crack are not Right, then there will always be an opportunity for these things to exist amongst those People.

In The NGE, we have what you call Parliaments. “Parliament” is a legislative body of Gods/Earths, called together to discuss issues and deal with Policies, Procedures, and Protocol that positively/negatively effecting our Family Units, Community, and Nation. The purpose of this discussion is to address Local, Regional, National issues so that we can amend, enact, and apply the appropriate Policies, Procedures, and Protocol that upholds/maintains our collective cultural ‘Criteria’ (Standard); Righteousness. For example, if a God/Earth has been engaging in some kind of criminal activities, then this will be addressed at Parliament. This God/Earth will have an opportunity to address these charges levied against them, and the legislative body (all those Gods/Earths who are present), will make a collective decision on how we need to resolve this issue. Parliament deals with the “Rules and Regulations” (28/1-40) that authorize, declare, restrict, proscribe, and sanction our Individual/Group behavior as a Nation. This system of checks & balances is important! Without this Governing Order, there would be Anarchy, because all of us would be left to our own devices/vices. As I’ve said many times before, it would be completely wrong for me to get with a Woman who isn’t educated/empowered enough to hold me accountable to the Cultural ‘Criteria’ (Standard) I live by. That’s unfair and unequal! In all Righteousness, this Woman must have the authority to check me and/or bring me before a Parliament of our peers if I’m doing something out of line! If she isn’t educated or empowered enough to do this, then I will be able to do whatever the f*ck I want! -shakes head- This also rings true for her! If I got with a Woman, and I’m not educated/empowered enough to hold her accountable to the ‘Criteria’ (Standard) she lives by, that relationship will also be unfair and unequal! In order for “word is bond and bond is life” (11/1-14) to actually work in a Companionship, Family, Nation…, those members must clearly understand eachother’s Principles and Values that define their sense of Morality & Ethics. THESE often unspoken ‘words’ are what they’re going to be ‘bonded’ to, “regardless to whom or what” (11/1-14). Everything within the Universe obeys/submits to a Laws; Principles that govern how it functions and behaves. In order for a Society to be deemed Civilized, the Principles and Values that govern how it’s Citizens function must be of a higher order. They must demonstrate a Moral & Ethical behavior the empowers them to culturally and technologically. If a group of People are “eating the wrong foods” (10/1-36), it’s impossible for them to be the forerunners of these cultural advancements; they won’t live long enough! If a Society of People don’t care about or secure their weakest elements, the Youth, Women, and Elders, they won’t have the fortitude/integrity to build a future! “Social means to advocate a Society of Men (Women and Children) or Group of Men (Women and Children) for one common cause. Equality means to be equal in everything.” (8/1-14). Coming together is impossible if there is no Order. There can’t be Order if those Individuals don’t have Morals & Ethics that determine their sense of Right and Wrong. Cee, Civilization is not based upon how we feel, our feelings must coincide with what’s Civilized, which is the priority. Righteousness is not determined by what we feel. Our feelings must be justified and measured according to Righteous Standards.

To conclude Today’s Article, I just want to encourage all of you to keep striving for perfection! -smile- As Civilized People, OUR DUTY encompasses many things, starting with a responsibility we take upon ourselves to simply do what’s Right! We may fall short sometimes, b.u.t. it’s our intention to do what’s Right that’ll ultimately allow us to prevail over these shortcomings. If we’re truly sincere about becoming a better person, then we’ll grow to embody the meaning of Civilization! In time, we’ll demonstrate ‘high levels’ of cultural and technological advancement as light sources amongst our Family, Community, Nation, and “all the Human Families of the Planet Earth” (2/1-14)! When it comes to Righteousness, there are many People, including so-called Gods/Earths, who believe that there is a right way to do wrong! So they won’t be the least bit interested in what I’m building about. They can care less about true growth and development, Civilization, Righteousness, Morals, Ethics, Companionship, Family, etc... Whenever Freedom is promoted without Cultural Integrity (Morals & Ethics) as the main priority, it’s only a matter of time before you start breeding “savages in the pursuit of happiness” (17/1-40). And those People who adopt/promote this individualistic ideology will never be Vanguards of a Divine Way of Life, or Fathers/Mothers of Civilization. Why? Because they’re not striving to represent a ‘high level’ of cultural and technological advancement, that will progress their Family, Community, Nation, and all the Human Families of the Planet Earth.


Friday, April 16, 2010

Dumb and Dumber

The Bomb

-The Other Greatest Story Never Told-

I chose my name “Saladin” from doing research on the 5th Lesson in the 1-14’s. The name means ‘Honor or Righteousness of the Faith’. Saladin was the King/Warrior responsible for expelling the Knights Templars out of Jerusalem in 1187 AD. He accomplished this with such a degree of Righteousness, that Saladin is one of the few Leaders who is well respected and written about by Muslims, Jews, and Christians alike.

People will always talk, positive or negative, but one thing my Ole Dad taught me is that, “You can out live a Lie, but you’ll never be able to out live the Truth.” This is very important to understand because many times People will try to discredit what you’re doing for various reasons. One of the most important parts of “teaching Civilization to others” (19/1-40), is by demonstrating Civilization. Another important part of that is “taking Jerusalem from the Devil.” (5/1-14). Taking Jerusalem is important because you can’t have ‘Civilization’ if it’s not “founded in Peace” (5/1-14) -which happens to be the meaning of “Jerusalem” (founded in Peace). So in other words, sometimes you may have to take something away, in order to found Peace, and maintain your Civilization! So in Today’s Article, I will address some public statements being made about me and demonstrate the Procedure of “taking Jerusalem from the Devil.”

For those of you who had an opportunity to listen to the last two Science of Life Radio Shows, I was on there and spoke about issues of Equality, Righteousness as a Standard across the board, and the importance of reevaluating our ideas about Righteousness and Civilization to ensure that we’re being considerate of Family Relationships. The first Show was Peace, yet towards the end of the Show one the Co-Host’s, Original Author, took personal offense to some of my points. After questioning if I had an Earth (Woman) and then explaining why he asked me that, I simply humbled myself and acknowledged what he said. Some People questioned why I didn’t add on, b.u.t. at the end of this Article you’ll understand why. Just for the record, in regards to my Relationship Status, this is the response I posted when an Earth (Woman) asked me that question. She clearly stated that there were Women who probably wanted to know b.u.t. were two bashful to ask me: “Yes I am available, and I am being "very selective" in choosing a Life Companion because a Family Unit is a very serious and sacred relationship to me! Things did not work out with me and my first Earth (Woman), and my daughters don't need to cee any more train wrecks behind me. So I don't teach my daughters that relationships are transitory by using a 'trial & error' method to find a Companion. About a month ago we were building and they thought it was hilarious that I usually go to the Movies, Restaurants, Travel, etc.. by myself! LOL As they get older, hopefully they'll learn to appreciate my degree of refinement as a Man, and integrity as a Father. ” So I’m not Single, because I do have a Family! I’m a Family Man who is currently without a Companion.

Anyway, after the first Show, I posted a status on Facebook referring to the incident of questioning “my availability” and Self Kingdom posts a comment saying it wasn’t about that. He also makes these accusations against me, “The God (Original Author) told me you (Saladin) done some funny style stuff”, “For those who say they do not understand, that is because you do not have knowledge of what Saladin did.” And “This is not about if he a builder, this is about some snake shit he have done, more than once.KEEP IN MIND that this is what Self Kingdom said about me, yet we never had one conversation! -smirk- Anyway, we sends me a FB Message, I forward him my Math, and he calls me around 4pm on 4/13. He left a message and I returned his call a few minutes later. After saying “Peace”, I jokingly (but seriously) said, “God you seem like you already got your Mind made up!” He disagreed and started to go into some things Original Author told him about me and then asked me was it true. I said, “God I don’t feel comfortable talking about this issue with the God not present to defend himself. Since you talk to him, can you ask him about doing a 3-Way Call so that we can resolve whatever issues he has with me with a Mediator present? This way you can hear what both of us have to say.” Self Kingdom agreed, we got off the phone, and he calls me back around 8pm saying that Original Author doesn’t want to do it. Hmmmmmmm…. I also send Self Kingdom a FB Message to forward to Original Author asking him about doing this 3-Way Call in private. I never get a response from either of them. AT THIS POINT IN THE ARTICLE, ALL OF YOU ARE WELL AWARE THAT I GAVE ORIGINAL AUTHOR AN OPPORTUNITY TO RESOLVE THIS IN PRIVATE! I also made sure I got Self Kingdom to confirm this, on the air, during the second Radio Show! -smile-

The second Show was some Jerry Springer shit. Naw actually, it was more like I a handicap wrestling Match between me and a NGE Tag Team version of S.D. Jones and Corporal Kirchner. Towards the end of the Show, Original Author had a chance to express whatever personal problem he had with me, which he expressed basically without interruption. When I did interrupt once, I apologized! Let me also state that when I first got on the air, in addition to getting Self Kingdom to acknowledge that I strived to do a 3-Way Call, I informed the listeners that “they” had the ability to mute my line and if they were willing to agree to not mute my line when I’m speaking. Self Kingdom also agreed to this! -smile- When it came time for me to speak, Original Author kept trying to get him to mute me, and both of them consistently interrupted me! It was horrible! The reason for this Article is to give you all a chance to cee and hear what I had to say, “undiluted, mixed or tampered with in any form” (9/1-14).


Because I do a lot of different things “by myself” (2/1-36), on and offline, I’m constantly communicating with People. EVERY DAY, I have to spend at least 1-2 hours online simply responding to people, reaching out to people, striving to put people in contact with others, answering questions, etc... If I skip a day, you can imagine what I’ll be looking forward to tomorrow. Mind you, this has nothing to do with the two jobs I have, the Mentor Program I do, the letters (prison or otherwise) I receive every week, or the additional Projects I invest time into. Although I do all of these things, it’s important that I make it a priority to communicate with the People! So you can cee, I don’t have a lot of time for many things. So if you ever receive a friendly text, email, message, etc.. from me, that means I don’t have time to talk, b.u.t. I’m definitely thinking about and acknowledging you! I also receive a lot of requests from People, males & females, about me teaching them, sending them Lessons, or putting them in contact with a God/Earth in their Area. My standard Procedure has been posting their info in DRE’s Myspace Group for Gods/Earths to cee and hopefully respond to. Another thing I do is when a Sister reaches out to me, I always strive to put her in contact with another Woman. I also contact various Gods/Earths personally, and pass the person’s NAME, EMAIL & LOCATION on to them! On Jun 17, 2009 at 10:58am, I had a Correspondence on Myspace with a female who called herself Kahsanjra. Below is the Correspondence that took place between me and her. Beginning from the bottom, my Correspondence is in Green, Kahsanjra's is in Orange:


6/18/2009 2:18 PM
From: To: Brothers from Another Pla...
Yes Niagara Falls is one of the places on my list. Im basically over it, its been several months now, it is painful to think of time to time. but sure we can build , I love learning and meeting new people. :) Peace,Kahsanjra

----------------- Original Message -----------------From: Quahadi Music/Quanaah PublishingTo: Healing Waters Date: Jun 18, 2009 1:35 PM Subject: RE: Peace! I feel you on that. Well sometime in the future when you're planning to travel, definately consider Atlantis (Niagara Falls).Well, there are various reasons why I'm lacking in the Companionship Dept. Queen. -smile- In nutshell, I simply haven't met the Queen yet nor have I openly tried to meet her. Although I realize you need some time to reconcile the emotions invested in your past relationship, if you're interested, I would love to build with you to get to know you better -in 'your own' good time. I'm sure we can learn alot from eachother! Peace, Saladin

----------------- Original Message -----------------From: Healing WatersTo: Quahadi Music/Quanaah Publishing Date: Jun 18, 2009 11:11 AM Subject: RE: Peace!well, my decisions are the effect of my companionship dep. going sour... I decided to break my lease to my apartment and move back with my mother so that I can save money and be able to travel like I would love to do. The apartment was for two but things changed I will have alittle more peace of mind being able to save.Why do you think you lack in the companionship Dept.?

----------------- Original Message -----------------From: Quahadi Music/Quanaah PublishingTo: Healing Waters Date: Jun 18, 2009 8:44 AM Subject: RE: Peace! No doubt! I'm doing the same; just been working a couple jobs and running my Mentorship Program! I love what I do, I'm just lacking in the companionship Dept.! LOL Anway, if you don't mind to share...decisions in reagards to what that will better suit you in the long run? Saladin

----------------- Original Message -----------------From: Healing WatersTo: Quahadi Music/Quanaah Publishing Date: Jun 17, 2009 11:59 AM Subject: RE: Peace! Peace, Im doing well, Peace to too. I havent been dealing with anything other than the usually.... me! :) Im feel great and working towards decisions that will better suit me in the long run. how about you?

----------------- Original Message -----------------From: Quahadi Music/Quanaah PublishingTo: Moving Water Date: Jun 17, 2009 10:58 AM Subject: Peace! Peace Queen! Ceen you on, just wanted to say Peace! How you been feeling lately and what you been dealing with? Saladin

Now on the Radio Show, Original Author tried to come off like I was pushing up on his Earth! So judging by our Correspondence, either Original Author was telling a bold face lie or she was! So me and Kahsanjra exchanged contact information, and we built on the phone. When me and Kahsanjra had an opportunity to build, we dealt with various sciences such as Cosmology, Relationships, Goddesses, etc... In the course of these conversations she also talked a great deal about her past relationship, and the circumstances surrounding it. This I can’t speak on because I don’t have any evidence of that. Kahsanjra also never mentioned this God’s name. Eventually, she asked me, via text, to be her Enlightener. I did not give her an answer b.u.t. responded by asking her who was the God who was teaching her, and if she had a problem with me contacting him. She immediately asked, “Why do you need to do that?”, and I explained to her that I wasn’t questioning if she was telling me the truth, b.u.t. as Gods/Earths, we don’t take anything “on face value” (9/1-40), and I need to find out his intentions as your Enlightener. She reluctantly agreed, told me his name was Original Author, and I sent Original Author a Myspace Message on Jul 7, 2009 10:28 AM letting him know I wanted to build with him. He responded to me on 7/11/2009 1:18 PM and this was our Correspondence:
7/11/2009 1:18 PM
From: Sponge God Square Stance... To: Brothers from Another Pla...
Peace I see you on...what's good with me hitting you now?

----------------- Original Message -----------------From: Quahadi Music/Quanaah PublishingTo: Original Author Date: Jul 7, 2009 10:28 AM Subject: Peace Lord! Peace 7! Can you forward me your Math, I wanted to build with you! Peace, Saladin

Me and Original Author get a chance to build on the phone the next day or so. After I say “Peace”, the first question I asked him was “Do you know this Wiz named Kahsanjra?” Original Author immediately says, “Yeah God, that’s my Earth. Why?” Then I tell Original Author that she asked me to Enlighten her and I was contacting him to cee where he was at with the situation; AKA “Are you still teaching her?” Original Author ensures me that Kahsanjra is his Earth and I need to just fall back! So I agreed to fall back and said, “You have my word that I won’t contact her anymore”. Before I could call her back, about 10 minutes later I get a phone call from Kahsanjra who was hysterical, asking me what happened because she got a call from Original Author cursing her out! I told her that Original Author told me ya’ll were still together so I agreed to fall back. Crying, she curses about what he’s trying to do and we get off the phone. About 10 minutes after that, I get another phone call from Kahsanjra and she says she has Original Author on the phone and if I Mind doing a 3-Way Call. I agree. As soon as I get on the phone, Original Author is cursing, talking about what he’s gonna do, and what a snake I was by how I came at him! His main point was that “I knew” Kahsanjra was his “EX” Earth! So noooow that we’re all on the phone, this female is his “Ex-Earth”! -smirk- When I questioned him on it, he blatantly lied and said, “Saladin, you know I said she was my ‘EX’ Earth!” Since I had no way of proving it, I dropped it and I asked him was he still teaching her, with her on the line! Humbled, he said “No” b.u.t. they’re trying to work it out and Kahsanjra said she’s not interested in working it out, it’s done! Then Original Author says, “Woooow, so you gon do me like that?” So after everything was out in the open, we get off the phone. Please take note that this was a 3-Way Call, and the purpose of this 3-Way Call was for one of two reasons:

1.) I was that thirsty, that I needed both of them on the phone to tell me directly that they were working things out, before I was willing to fall back! LOL

2.) Somebody was blatantly lying that needed to be exposed!

So 2 minutes after we end this call, I get a call from Original Author trying to curse me out again about what a snake I am. He was accusing me of knowing that Kahsanjra was his “EX” Earth, and I was a snake for asking him “Does he know this Wiz?” instead of addressing her as his Queen or Earth. LOL! When I got a chance to speak…, I informed him that this is all she was to me, “Some Wiz” that I met and have no relationship with. Someone I don’t know just like I didn’t know him! For those who’re reading this, whenever a Judge is making an inquiry into a Case, they don’t tell either Party what they know! They simply ask questions and divulge basic information that’s in the best interest maintaining the integrity that allows them to make a Just decision! How the hell does a Judge look bringing shit from one person to the other?! Moreover, if I were a snake, and a dumb one at that, I would have taken whatever she told me “on face value” (9/1-40)! I would have neeeever cared or taken the initiative to reach out to this Brother! That was strait up respect! Anyway, he still didn’t agree with my Procedure, b.u.t. I did have an opportunity to ask him, “Why should I still fall back even though she said she doesn’t want you to Enlighten her?” Original Author then begins to openly tell me how he still just has feelings for her, it’s real sensitive right now, I can get any other Earths I want b.u.t. just leave this one alone, maybe ya’ll can build in the future b.u.t. just not right now, and that she may be using this situation to try to hurt him. I listened and respected the fact that he was honest about that, so I again agreed to not contact her anymore -after I let her know that we built with eachother and agreed that this decision is in the best interest of all of us involved. Before we get off the phone, Original Author also asks me that even if she contacts me, to not even contact her back. LOL! Yeah, I agreed to that too. -shrugs-

So I step out of the situation is by texting Kahsanjra to let her know that me and Original Author built, and it was in the best interest of all of us for me to not be in the middle of these unresolved issues. I also informed her that I will no longer correspond with her, I hope both of them find closure so they both can move forward, and I appreciate having the opportunity to meet her. She called me, texted me, left VM’S, etc.. and I did not respond. NOW AFTER THIS WAS ALL SAID AND DONE, this is the last Myspace Message Original Author sent me later that night on 7/11/2009 at 10:30pm. Keep in Mind, this is AFTER everything is supposed to be done:

7/11/2009 10:30 PM
From: Sponge God Square Stance... To: Brothers from Another Pla...
Peace if she contacts you and AFTER you make knowledge born about our understanding and agreement...and you let her know direct that you will not be having any contact with her and she does not respect that I want to be notifed for there is NO he said she said stuff knowledge was made born...this is on you god...WE have the if its not respected on that tip...then that's when its get disrespect fuly again...I don't want her feeding me nothing about you was saying this Or doing that, when shit is supposed to be dead on all fronts.I am leaving it as that...I appreciate that and I will let it be from here on out,on the bond you gave...I am dealing with the KNOWLEDGE you made BORN...PEACE

Yeah, I had the same reaction when I read it; “What kinda weak ass shit is that?!” LOL Here’s a few questions to ask yourself:

1. Why is this dude trying to get me to keep tabs on some female, FOR HIM, who told him she doesn't want nothing to do with him anymore?!

2. Why was it important for him to get me to agree to have NO CONTACT with her, but notify him whenever she contacts me?!

3. If I’m such “a snake” dude, why would he expect “a snake” to keep their word, ask “a snake” to volunteer as his surveillance, and then let “the snake” know how much he appreciates “this snake”?!

In addition to Original Author’s childish emotional outbursts, this shit really showed me the clownish level this dude was really on. -shakes head- I didn’t even respond to that bullshit and haven't communicated with Original Author since then. The last interaction I had with him was the little “machismo” posturing he tried to pull on those Science of Life Radio Shows. I’m glad he did it though! LOL Because now when people go back and listen to these Shows, and compare it with THESE ACTUAL FACTS, they’ll reeeeeally be able to get a kick out of how I sat back and let him make a complete ass outta himself! They’ll also be able to appreciate how ignorant his Co-Host ‘Self Kingdom’ is for co-signing his boy’s bullshit! LOL Now ask yourselves, what kinda “Science of Life” is that? This whole situation just reveals some serious growth & development issues that need to be addressed within ourselves, our Families, and Nation. On a personal level, hopefully these dudes will humble themselves and learn to quit wisdom knowledging! Both of them are a disgrace to the Principles and Values of what this Nation is about, and they, like anybody else who’s deceiving the People, need to be completely exposed!!! Now People can really cee "the meaning of Civilization." (17/1-40)

Now this is the last Message I received from Kahsanjra, three days after I informed her, by text Message, that I’m stepping away from the whole situation. She sent this on 7/14/2009 at 8:18am, and the Message was titled ‘The wrong sister’:

7/14/2009 8:18 AM
From: To: Brothers from Another Pla...
Yo, what the hell you get out of this shit... stop egging this man on. You obvious had other intentions. I never asked for a friendship... i told you life and knowledge goes on meaning i moved on. i have no attachement with you so please save you lies. I used you own words aginst you as far as "one monkey doesnt stop the show", and "what does your students have to do with what im doing"... thoes are your words that i used against you to show how contradicting you are. You dont want to be involved you you running to him for what?! You already know how emotional he his and you playing on it ... go about you business with someone else and leave this man alone. Lying about what you said to save your ass, man up! but you will lie on me. once you said you were not going to teach me, i moved on. you surly dont know me and dont pretend like you do. Try to make some other woman look like a bitch but I aint the one i got my shit together. If you got something to say to me, say it to me straight up, as old as you are and you having daughers, you should know better. Now that you dont reading this... go run tell him i sent this to you too, better yet forward it to him. I have nothing to hide. PEACE!

Aside from the other mumbo jumbo, you can clearly cee she’s upset that I didn’t want anything to do with the situation. Original Author claimed on air, that she cut me off! Oh really? LOL! One thing you’ll notice is that both of their Messages read the same: emotionally immature and uncivil! Ultimately, I got the impression that they were a young couple with unresolved issues they needed to work out, and I got caught in the crossfire. So I obviously didn’t respond to this bullshit either.

Now for those of you who doubt the validity of any of these Correspondences, I have taken the liberty of making these “Webpages” available as viewable files that you can download here:

Why? Because that’s what Showing & Proving is about! We can always dispute some “he said, she said” bullshit, b.u.t. you can’t dispute Actual Facts!

In closing, I want to reiterate that I came at this dude as a Brother from the gate. I even gave him an opportunity to handle whatever problem he has with me in private to let this dude save face! Even at this point, I have all rights to bomb the shit outta him AND clown his boy Self Kingdom for keeping up shit and trying to malign my Character on their Show. Allah is indeed the most merciful! I don’t expect any public apologies from Original Author for trying to publically disgrace me, or Self ‘Saa Neter’ Kingdom for joining him on this weak ass Crusade! LOL! I also don’t expect them to respect the degree of Refinement and Civilization I’ve shown both of them by the way I’ve handled this whole situation. I’ve already expected too much Civilization out of both of them, which is obviously “thunder above their heads” (9/1-40). These “people”, because they’ve shown me and everybody else that they’re not my Brothers or truly about Family, are a prime example of the Cultural Immaturity I consistently address. This is the type of arrested development that we need to get away from in order for us to truly improve our quality of life, sustain our Family Units, and progress as a Nation! Making a Controversial/Sensational Show to try to bite my or anybody else’s back out TO BOOST YOUR RATINGS is not Nation Building! Here are a few Lessons you can take away from this:

1.) Just because someone might ‘look like’ Common, doesn’t mean he’s like Common.
2.) Knowledge is the Foundation! Always do a thorough investigation before agreeing to do something, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DO NOT HAVE THE FULL KNOWLEDGE OF WHAT YOU MAY BE GETTING INTO!
3.) Never walk into Court without DOCUMENTED EVIDENCE to support your Claim/Position. You’ll only end up looking like an ass when it’s all said and done!
4.) Always keep clean underwear! You don’t wanna be put in a situation where People get a chance to cee your drawers, and they’re full of shit!
5.) It can take “years, months and days” (36/1-40) to earn people’s trust, and one ‘Science of Life’ Episode to destroy it!
6.) If you’re gonna call yourself “God/Earth”, you’re only doing yourself, your Family, this Nation, and Society a disserve by not striving to live up to that standard. If you’re having trouble, get with someone who can help you out!
7.) If you’re dealing with jealousy, envy, lust, or hate, it will reveal itself. You can’t help but expose it because it consumes you!
8.) Think about your Family, Friends, and Associates before you put yourself out on a limb! Because if things don’t go your way, and you end up embarrassing yourself, you’re also embarrassing your Family, Friends, and anyone who Associates with you!
9.) It ain’t no fun when the rabbit got the gun.


Tuesday, April 06, 2010


"The vital building block of a Nation"

I pray to a Mystery God that if something ever happened to me, and I needed emergency surgery, that the Surgeon standing over me isn’t some Woman who didn’t have to learn all of the surgical procedures in Medical School because she was a female. I also hope I never get accused of a double homicide and get represented by some female who’s considered “A Lawyer” just because her Husband went to Law School and passed the Bar Exam. Thankfully, that’s not how Medical School, Law School, and even a Culinary Arts Institute work. For both male AND female, Performance/Proficiency Standards, and Academic expectations are the same across the board, AT LEAST ON PAPER THEY ARE! LOL Of course you have many instances where people are given a free pass, for various reasons, and this is what I wanted to build about today; The Performance/Proficiency Standards we set, or do not set, within our relationships and Family Units.

Many moons ago…, I grew up in a household where my College Educated Ole Earth was the ‘Captain’ of the ship. Even though she needed help making Hamburger Helper, she was skillful enough to order the ‘Lieutenant’ and ‘Private Soldiers’ around like worker bees in an industrious beehive. She called the shots, managed the money/bills, delegated ass whuppins, and would often call one of us downstairs to change the T.V. Channel or get her a glass of water. She worked in the Human Services Field and also various Youth Recreation Centers here in Atlantis, and it’s obvious some of the qualities I learned from her. A trained Psychologist/Sociologist, my Ole Earth looked like Cicely Tyson, had the mother wit of the Oracle from the Matrix, and a Richard Pryor sense of humor. My Ole Dad on the other hand was a Tradesmen and Cook in the Military. He was never College Educated yet taught us values such as hard work, honor, and other codes of conduct I still hold fast to today! Because he cooked for 300-400 Men, he did all the cooking at home. Back in the penny candy days when minimum wage in NYS was hovering around three dollars, my Ole Dad started a Business painting houses in the Summer, AND hired me and my siblings to work for $5 per hour! He was doing this along with working as a Painter for the City of Atlantis (Niagara Falls, NY), taking me and my brothers junking on Saturdays –which was driving up/down alleys looking for copper & aluminum people knowingly/unknowingly threw away so we could cash it in at the junkyard, and finding other odd jobs to get cream. My go-getter, get it done, ambitious attitude is a direct quality I got from him! My Ole Dad is wise and reminds me of James Evans, with a sunny disposition, and Native American features. The household I grew up in was like the Cosby Show with a Goodtimes budget.

My Parents usually compensated for eachother in areas where the other wasn’t as proficient. My Ole Earth passed away in 1995 due to a lengthy illness and this was the first time she really had to depend upon my Ole Dad. Under these circumstances my Ole Dad was called upon to perform tasks he never had to do, either because he never took the initiative to learn them and/or my Ole Earth didn’t take the time to show him. Obviously this created a dilemma. When my Ole Earth returned to essence our Home and House slowly fell apart… Most of us, including my Ole Dad, never prepared for a day when we’d have to perform certain tasks our Ole Earth or one of the other siblings usually performed. So many things didn’t get done or got done poorly, and we found ourselves thrown into ‘real time’ situations that demanded a certain level of Performance/Proficiency. In striving to meet these demands, me and most of my siblings never really had a chance to grieve because we had to take care of business and be strong for our Ole Dad, who was devastated after loosing the love of his life! Although we did the best we could, because we were collectively unprepared, we were also unqualified to properly handle certain business. Fortunately, my sister ‘AzIzA’, who isn’t even the oldest, stepped up and took on a great deal of responsibility. If it wasn’t for her, many more things wouldn’t have gotten done! In my Ole Earths sickness, she continually worried about what was going to happen if she was no longer here! One of her biggest concerns, that still echoes in my Mind was, “Make sure you look out for my baby”; my youngest sibling whom we call ‘Major Scientist’, who’ll be released this July, after maxing out on a 3 year sentence for a Drug Charge. Among other Lessons I learned from this experience was that, “It’s only a benefit to be prepared for what can happen!”

Within The Nation of Gods and Earths (The NGE), there has been some discussion about “If Earths should be held accountable for learning our 8-Point Curriculum?” There are some Gods who do not teach or advocate that Earths learn the totality of our Curriculum; all 8-Points. They advocate that it’s fine if she only knows about the History of our Nation and ‘2 Points’ of our Universal Flag; 2 Points being Supreme Mathematics and Supreme Alphabet. On the other hand, there are Gods who advocate that Earths learn all 8-Points of our Universal Flag like he learned it. I also must mention that there are no options when it comes to Gods, we must learn 8-Points.

At our recent Region 6 Parliament in Cee Allah’s Nation (Canada), we agreed to begin holding all Brothers accountable for completing their Education; Finish learning all 8-Points of our Curriculum within the next 60 days before they can attend our Civilization Classes. This Policy only pertained to those Brothers who come in the Name of our Nation, yet have had our Lessons for at least Three (3) years and never completed them! I cee this as a positive step in the right direction towards setting reasonable expectations, and putting pressure on those Brothers who claim to have an allegiance to our Cultural Principles, Values, and National Interests. As I discussed with various Gods within our Region, the only issue we need to address now is the ‘Earth’ question. Should the Women in our Nation be held to the same Cultural Expectations, Performance/Proficiency Standards as the Men? Are these Brothers to be held accountable for meeting this 60 day mark, yet the Sisters not? How will these expectations and demands on Gods, yet not on the Earths, affect the integrity of our “Family Units”: which ultimately comprise our Nation?

From the perspective of establishing, maintaining, and progressing a Family Unit, there is no benefit in Parents not knowing the full scope of eachothers Cultural Principles, Values, and National Interests. There is also no benefit in not knowing how each other uses this Perspective to define their role and perform their daily tasks. Can you imagine having a child with a certain medical condition and simply leaving it up to the other Parent to know about it and administer their medication? Because you never educated yourself about your child’s condition and proper procedures to administer their medication, if left up to you, you might be responsible for killing your own child! Your lack of education and preparation, is a threat to the security and preservation of your Family Unit. The same goes for a Man who doesn’t think/feel there is a need for his Wife to learn how to drive a car. Under these circumstances, he better hope his Wife is never in an emergency situation where she’s forced to drive herself AND their children somewhere! Because of her lack of knowledge, this jeopardizes the safety and stability of the Family. In both cases, people often go through traumatic events before they learn the importance of being equally educated and prepared…

In considering the best interest of our relationships and Families, I think that the best situation is when a Man and Woman share the same ‘Core’ Values, Principles, and Cultural Interests. If not, there will be a fundamental conflict at the core of that relationship, and philosophical rifts that will breed disunity. Within the Nation of Gods and Earths, our ‘Core’ Values, Principles, and Cultural Interests are derived from our 8-Point Curriculum, which is symbolic to the 8-Points on our Universal (National) Flag:

1. Supreme Mathematics
2. Supreme Alphabet
3. Student Enrollment
4. 1-14
5. 1-36
6. 1-40
7. Actual Facts
8. Solar Facts

Just because this is our Foundation, THIS DOES NOT MEAN that we don’t study the science of everything else in Life and align ourselves with various ‘Core’ Values, Principles, that coincide with/serve our Cultural Interests. Our 8-Point Curriculum is the ‘judgment standard’ (Criteria) we use to evaluate other sciences of Life, ‘Core’ Values, and Principles. This Foundation defines our Cultural Worldview, and functions as a ‘GPS’ (Global Positioning System) we use to navigate life, order our lives, and make sense of the Universe.

Now when it comes to Companionships, as Gods/Earths, the most logical decision would be to choose another God/Earth. Why? Because they’re someone who already knows/adheres to, or is in the process of learning/embracing the same ‘Core’ Values, Principles, and Cultural Interests as you. Again, in considering our Family and future generations, this would mean that by choosing someone who shares the same ‘Core’ Values, Principles, and Cultural Interests as you, if something ever happened to you, this Culture wouldn’t die with you! My question to those Gods who think/feel that it’s not necessary (important) for his Woman to know this 8-Point Curriculum like him is, “How does it benefit him, the Family, and his future generations by her ‘not knowing’ this 8-Point Curriculum?” This also brings to Mind another question, “If a God is getting the full benefits of knowing this 8-Point Curriculum, would his Companion, and Family benefit from also knowing this 8-Point Curriculum 'for themselves'?” If it’s a God’s position that, “She didn’t choose it for herself, and I can’t force her to learn!” I agree with them 120%, you can’t force someone to do something, they have to choose it for themselves! So the questions I would ask this God is, “Why did he choose her?” and “How does it benefit your Family Unit by choosing a Companion, who has chosen not to thoroughly know, accept, or embrace the same ‘Core’ Values, Principles, and Cultural Interests as you?

Some Gods would object to what I’m building about and say, “Well she’s reflecting my light and learns the Culture through how I live! I don’t gotta give her no Lessons!” Well many of us can hum the melody to a Song yet it’s a whole different thing to know and analyze the lyrics that embody the Ideas, Story, and Values in the Song! There are many Gods with Women who only know bits and pieces of our 8-Point Curriculum. Because she only knows alittle, and is missing ALOT, she has to use other information, guess, make assumptions, and ask for answers to “fill in the gaps”. If you’re a God who has a Family Unit like this, are you comfortable knowing that whenever you are absent or even present, that it’s ultimately “these gaps” that she has to use, to educate your children? This is equivalent to having an Ambassador represent your Nation who has very little ‘actual’ knowledge and ‘experience’ in areas of Diplomacy and the National Interests you supposedly share. Not only are they unqualified to diplomatically represent these National Interests, b.u.t. they’re also ill-equipped to train someone about these Interests if something ever happened to you! Although this Ambassador may be able to improvise in some situations, it’s only a matter of time before their inadequacies are fully exposed AND taken advantage of by somebody without your Interests at heart. AND WHEN THIS HAPPENS, because it will, it’s going to threaten the security/stability of an entire Nation! Some Gods will say, “Although my Queen doesn’t know 120 (the other 6-Points of our Curriculum; thus she improvises), I know she’ll do what’s best for the Family and our children if I’m gone!” Well I’d ask them, “How can she ‘know’ how to do what’s in the best Interest of your Family, when she doesn’t actually ‘know’ OR totally embrace your ‘Core’ Values, Principles, and Cultural Interests?” If their only solution is that they know (actually hope) she’ll bring their children around some other Gods/Earths, I’d ask them, “What has she shown you, while you are alive, that gives you any evidence that she would be willing to do something like that?” Just because she’s been around sometimes watching you operate heavy machinery for “years, months, and days” (36/1-40), it doesn’t mean she’s qualifiedly trained to do so herself! Not only are you putting too much faith in the unknown (10/1-40), b.u.t. you’re also putting unreasonable expectations on your Companion to make choices you’ve never ceen her make! Anytime we have a lack of concern or consideration for equal Performance/Proficiency Standards within our relationships, we put the Family Unit at risk, and are ultimately flirting with disaster.

Another thing we must consider is the ‘Criteria’ or standard of judgment we’re using to define the perimeters of our relationships AND using as the basis of our Family Unit. Can we successfully hold a Family Unit together AND it’s Members responsible/accountable for a ‘Criteria’ they’re not fully aware, don’t agree with, or choose not to embrace? It would be unrighteous and unreasonable on our part to even expect that from somebody! If we are striving to hold our Family Members to a Cultural Standard that they’re not fully aware, don’t agree with, or choose not to embrace, we’ll only breed discontentment and dissatisfaction!! The most reasonable relationship is one where you both know, agree, and embrace the same Cultural Rules & Regulations (Policies & Procedures), instead of one person having them and then checking the other person about these Cultural Rules & Regulations (Policies & Procedures) “every step of the way” (4/1-14). There is nothing equal about this type of “Power Dynamic”! In time, you’ll cee this unsustainable relationship fizzle out and become a dysfunctional Family Unit. As I elaborated on in my ‘Fallen Earth’ Article, many Gods/Earths have/are establishing relationships with People who don’t share our Cultural Worldview/Interests. This is the fundamental reason why these Quasi-Relationships produce dysfunctional Family Units, which are inequitable Institutions for establishing a real National Agenda. Out of sheer lust, feelings, lack of judgment, personal preference, basic selfishness, etc.., some Gods/Earths will compromise their ‘Criteria’ for Companions who are ill-equipped to preserve/perpetuate their ‘Core’ Values, Principles, and Cultural Interests of a Family Unit and future generations. You often cee the same type of decisions being made within Mosques, Kingdom Halls, Churches, etc.. It’s impossible to build a strong, unified Institution if it’s Member’s aren’t unified! If you have a Church full of females and most of their Men would rather stay home and watch football, it’s impossible for that Religious Institution to have the Family support to actually grow, UNLESS some restructuring occurs within these Family Units. If you have a School full of Children who’s Parents aren’t supportive/involved in their education, it’s impossible for that Educational Institution to have the Family support to actually grow, UNLESS some restructuring occurs within these Family Units. When Gods advocate that their Earth doesn’t need to have 120 (the other 6-Points of our Curriculum), they’re setting themselves, their Family, and their future generations up for a fall! Because the Cultural ‘Criteria’ that governs that Family isn’t a Unit (unified), it’s impossible to establish/sustain a Nation that has the Family support to actually grow, UNLESS some restructuring occurs within these Family Units! Now for those of you who’ve already married a person who doesn’t share the Cultural Standards (Criteria) as you do, you’ve made that choice so you gotta live with it. Since “Word is bond and bond is life” (11/1-14), you must continue to accept your Companion the way you accepted them when you got married. You can mention to them some of things I’ve built about in this Article and even refer this to them, b.u.t. YOU HAVE NO RIGHT to demand they change what you’ve already accepted. If they do make changes and strive to know more, agree with, and embrace your Religious/Cultural Perspective, that’s Peace! If they don’t, that’s also Peace because you already accepted them. If it’s not going your way and you have regrets about marrying this person, you just gotta live with your decision to be with them or face the reality of a seperation/divorce. For those of you who aren’t married, b.u.t. are engaged, have a boyfriend/girlfriend, ceeing somebody, etc.., you really need to ask yourselves, “Is this a good investment for a Family Unit and our future generations?” If not, then you need to talk to them and move on. If they're someone you're willing to work with, then it's important for you both discuss where eachothers heads & hearts are at. Keep in Mind that it’s important for you to let them know, over time, the full scope of your Core’ Values, Principles, and Cultural Interests. This is also something they must do as well, and this process will address the ‘Criteria’ or standard of judgment you'll both be using to define the perimeters of this relationships AND using as the basis of your Family Unit. Without this process of disclosure/transparency, on both sides, THERE WILL BE fundamental problems with that relationship! Problems that all the sex in the World, Gift Giving, Entertainment, a Marriage License, a Baby, a Home Mortgage, etc.. CAN’T SOLVE! If a potential Companion is interested in knowing more about your ‘Core’ Values, Principles, and Cultural Interests, then that’s Peace! Make sure they’re willing to take the initiative to learn the full scope of what you’re dealing with. You’ll know if they’re sincerely interested. If they’re not interested, that’s also Peace because you just saved yourself a migraine headache, and a “95%” (85% + 10%: 14-15/1-40) chance of having a dysfunctional Family Unit. Now, THIS DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY MEAN that simply because your Companion is a Member of your Church, Mosque, or is also a God/Earth that everything is gonna be graaavee!! LOL What this does mean is that by choosing someone who at least knows, agrees with, and embraces the same ‘Criteria’ as you, you have a Family/Institutional Support System in place to reinforce these Rules & Regulations (Policies & Procedures). This also means that you have a proper plan of recourse in place, just in case your Family Unit goes off track or needs certain issues addressed. A Church, Mosque, Community of Gods/Earths, etc.., WHO SHARE THE SAME ‘CRITERIA’ AS YOU, are there as support ‘units’. When there isn’t any support or recourse, you’re both left to your own devices, which is not always the best situation for a relationship or Family Unit. It’s also important to consider the fact that in most cases of ‘Domestic Violence’, people are most likely to be physically, emotionally, sexually, and economically abused when there are no support systems or plans of recourse in place to reinforce that relationship. So ultimately, there is no benefit in having no support system or plan of recourse in place when Family problems occur. THIS DOESN'T MEAN that you go into a relationship thinking that the other person don't got shit to offer, and everything is going to be based solely upon a 'Criteria' YOU embrace. The point is, you need to have a 'Criteria' and Plan before you even consider having a conversation! A 'Criteria' and Plan that is "already" (key word) working for you, that you're willing to put on the table, and confidently express it's benefits for a Family Unit, AND future generations. The other person should have a 'Criteria' and Plan too, and through analyzing these blueprints, you both can decide what's most beneficial for building a strong Family Structure! If you're both honest enough with yourselves, and thinking about the importance of building, protecting, and sustaining a Family Unit, it shouldn't be difficult to acknowledge what type of Cultural Rules & Regulations (Policies & Procedures) to use. If you don't have a 'Criteria' and Plan, someone has a 'Criteria' and Plan for you!

In conclusion, I would like to emphasize the importance of insuring that you and your respective/prospective Companion are on the same page, and share the same Interests/Vision for your Family Unit. This means that not only are you on the same path, b.u.t. you’re also headed in the same direction! If not, you’re only asking for problems you could avoid. If you’re attitude is that your Companion doesn’t need to know the full scope of your Cultural, Religious, or Philosophical Perspective, these “unknowns” will come back to bite you in the ass! Communicating these Rules & Regulations (Policies & Procedures), and sharing the responsibility/accountability of this ‘Criteria’ makes your relationships AND Family Unit better equipped to handle problems AND stand the test of time. Without this type of Bond, we’re just two individuals with/without children, who’re making up the rules as we go…; which isn’t good for eachother, our Family (or future Family), our Community, or Nation as a whole! There is no Benefit in having a Companion who doesn’t know the full scope of Christianity, and you’re a Christian. There is NO BENEFIT in having a Companion who doesn’t know the full scope of Islam, and you’re a Sunni Muslim. There is NO BENEFIT in having a Companion who doesn’t know the full scope of being Self Employed, and you’re a Small Business Owner. There is also NO BENEFIT in having a Companion who doesn’t know the full scope of The NGE (The Nation of Gods and Earths) 8-Point Curriculum, and you’re a God/Earth. In all cases, this can only be a liability, handicap, and hindrance to eachother and your Family Unit! Since there is obviously NO BENEFIT in this, the next logical question is, “Why do people choose relationships like this, and try to build a Family Unit like that?” Some People just don't know any better. Some People are just thirsty to have somebody, anybody, in their life. Some People just want what you can do for them, not what you’re about. Some People aren’t even thinking about Family, let alone a future generation, so what I’m saying to them is really irrelevant. Some people think that all relationships are gonna have problems regardless to whom or what, so they simply accept the dysfunction as a fact of life, and pass this mentality on to their children... Some people ain’t thinking that deep. To them as long as they’re “feeling eachother”, that’s all that matters –on their good days of course! Some people want to be accepted but not checkdid! LOL So they deliberately don’t inform their Companion about the full scope of who they are so they can “use them for a tool and also as a slave” (6/1-14). There are maaaaaaany justifications and rationalizations why people make relationship choices and try to build a family Unit like this, b.u.t. one thing you’ll cee that they all have in common is their lack of concern/consideration for what’s in the best interest of a Family Unit, their future generations, or Nation as a whole! When considering a relationship, it’s always important to consider what Cultural Interests and Vision for a Family Unit will be passed on to the next generations when one/both of you are absent or no longer here! Even if you don’t want or have children, a relationship is still a ‘Unit’ that contains Cultural Interests, a Vision, and brings ‘Families’ together. So even in this situation, it’s still important to consider what will be passed on to the future generations within your respective Families, when one/both of you are absent or no longer here!! If none of what I’m saying is of any concern to you and your Companion, then I pray to that Mystery God that everything works out for "you AND her"…